It's my studied opinion that when a female in a long-term relationship makes a big change in her hairstyle, she is getting ready to get out of the relationship. I can personally point to three different occasions when I have seen this happen. Two with co-workers and one with a family member.
I don't know what it is about our hair, but when we want things to change, that's the first thing to go. Maybe it's a test. If we can handle a drastic change in hairdo, we can then make the bigger jump to make a drastic change in our lives. Maybe we think if we change our hair and feel good about it, we'll feel better about our lives, too. Maybe we have decided we are a different person now and we want to show that change through our hair so when we jump off the relationship boat, no one will be surprised.
Whatever it is, it's a tell as far as I'm concerned. It's almost to the point now where when I see it happen, my first thought is "Oh, no".
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